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Personal Ad...

We love our new house. Love it! We love the big dining room and open common rooms. We love the charm and character of the tall ceilings and wide wood work. We feel quite at home here and it's only been 3 weeks. I'm getting a bit antsy to start doing some painting and decorating to really help it feel like our space.

Today the girls and I were back in Grinnell so that I could teach class and so we drove past the old house to see the new roof. My flowers are in full bloom and the house looked nicer than it ever did the 6+ years we lived there thanks to hard work we put into the fresh paint job this spring. It was somewhat interesting to me that I didn't even get the least bit sad looking at ol' 1217 Ann, though I do miss our old neighborhood a bit.

What I most miss about Grinnell are our friends and familiar faces/places around town. The 4th of July ended up being a very emotional weekend for me. Taking much needed breaks from packing to join some of the local festivities left me feeling so very lonely. We were surrounded by people, yet there was not a familiar face in the crowd. By weekend's end I was tired, in tears, still not feeling very settled, and very much questioning why we had to leave the comfort of everything we had come to know as home in Grinnell.

I'm glad to say I'm feeling better about things now.

Sometimes I wish meeting new people in town was a simple as writing a family personal ad and waiting for interested contacts. What might we write about our family? Maybe something like...

New Carlisle family of 4 looking for friendship. Family consists of: one 30 something politically moderate profession husband who enjoys all things related to sports, talk radio, reading Stephen King novels, and who aspires to one day learn to fly fish and play the guitar; one 30 something politically liberal yoga teaching wife who knits, sews, gardens, blogs, takes pictures, bikes, loves dancing and who supports gay marriage, alternative energy, buying local, the right for women to choose, and believes in the power of compassion and love to create peace across differences; 2 busy, growing, inquisitive girlies (ages 8 & 4) who love art, animals, swimming, reading, bike riding, all forms of play and exploration, and time spent with friends and family. Interested contacts should enjoy casual BBQs, open air music concerts, impromptu get togethers for coffee, random family fun, and promoting the growth and health of the local community.

I know, I know...meeting people will simply take some time...I just wish there was an easy way to jump start things a bit.

My new wide angle lens is scheduled to arrive tomorrow. I can't wait to get some pictures taken of the house to share with you all!



Pink Doberman said…
Love the post! So glad you are getting settled! Sorry I missed you when you were out here! Hope L had fun!

So cute the add for friends, I've lived here 15 years, and I think I should put an add like that in the local paper. =)

Blessings, Can't wait to see pictures of your new digs!!
Consider this a response to your ad! But I live out of state. Will that be a problem? It might cut down on the number of BBQ's...

:) Love the post.
Christina said…
I feel the same way. Its been hard meeting people I tear up thinking about my friends in Atl. But I hear it gets easier. .
Laurie said…
I so understand. Unlike my husband (who should be mayor), I don't make friends quickly, and when we talk about relocating to a new area, I feel very uneasy. How will I ever get to know anyone???

OTOH, I love the personal ad and wish I didn't live in Ohio so I could answer it. :-)

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